Showing posts with label values. Show all posts
Showing posts with label values. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 10, 2020

LESSON 23 - The Bully in the Boardroom

Welcome to More Lessons From the Nonprofit Boardroom Blog, a 40-week journey through the new book, More Lessons From the Nonprofit Boardroom, by Dan Busby and John Pearson. Each Wednesday, we're featuring a guest writer’s favorite snippet from the week's topic. Nate Parks is our guest blogger this week for the fourth of four lessons in "Part 6: Boardroom Time-Wasters, Troublemakers, and Truth-tellers.” And during this COVID-19 era, the role of the board becomes even more critical. We pray that your board will have God-honoring wisdom as you spiritually discern next steps.


LESSON 23 OF 40: The Bully in the Boardroom
The board chair, the CEO, and other board members must neutralize the board bully. 

THE BIG IDEA FROM THE BOOK: In Lesson 23, the authors note that a board bully manipulates, pressures, blames, and coerces people to follow his or her ideas or agenda. These bullies wreak havoc and create dissension which derails the board’s missional focus. 

Once a bully is identified in the boardroom we need to support and empower the chair to take courageous and gracious action to help the bully exit the boardroom efficiently and effectively. 

MY FAVORITE INSIGHTS from Lesson 23, pages 125-128: 
• Fundamentally, bullying is a spiritual issue.
• Keeping the phrase “created in the image of God” in the back of the mind is a must.
• Use a spiritually and strategically designed process to choose and recruit people for key leadership positions.  

MY COLOR COMMENTARY:
Identifying the bully in the boardroom is typically not a board’s basic problem. The most astute boards identify bullies—in advance—through a formal application and interview process. The goal is clear—to make sure the board has a well-thought-out onboarding process that is well executed to weed out the bullies and protect the board. This is the best anti-bullying structure to have in place. 

The problem intensifies if the bully has already found his or her seat on the board and identified the alliances and power structures in the boardroom. There is no doubt that the bully will locate and assimilate these alliances and power structures for personal advantage and agendas.

In the most difficult cases, the bully will achieve the chairperson’s role—which has the potential of destroying not only the board, but the mission itself. The goal is to create a board culture that exposes these kinds of agendas quickly and deals with them effectively. The question I would ask is this: What specific value of your board culture protects the mission from personal agendas? 

Your board has a bigger problem if the CEO is the bully. The CEO has an extraordinary amount of influence over the board. Depending on your bylaws, your CEO may be an ex-officio board member which matters little when the CEO is operating unimpeded. It is imperative that the board institute and activate an annual CEO evaluation process. In my experience, this is one of the most neglected duties of board governance.

The goal is to put in place and practice a solid evaluation process that effectively identifies the duties, roles, and responsibilities of the CEO and the manner in which they should be lived out. Effective evaluation is the best way to mitigate bullying by the CEO both inside and outside of the boardroom.   

THIS WEEK’S QUOTES & COMMENTARY BY NATE PARKS:


NATE PARKS is the President/CEO at Berea Ministries in New England. He is known for his creativity and unique perspective in seeking solutions for organizations. In addition to holding a master’s degree in business, Nate is a national speaker and consultant, always challenging people to look beyond their personal or organizational boundaries for maximum impact.  


TO DO TODAY: 
• Identify the bullies in the room and praise God if you can’t find them.
• Make concerted and grace-filled efforts to remediate the bully situation in your boardroom.
• Visit the ECFA Knowledge Center and read and share the short chapter, Lesson 23, “The Bully in the Boardroom.”




NEXT WEDNESDAY: On June 17, 2020, watch for the commentary by Rebekah Basinger on Lesson 24, “Should Most Standing Committees Stand Down? How many standing committees are needed for effective governance?”



BULK ORDERS: Click here. For more resources and to download the book's Table of Contents, visit the book's webpage.

Wednesday, March 18, 2020

LESSON 11 – Thrive With Four Kingdom Values

Welcome to More Lessons From the Nonprofit Boardroom Blog, a 40-week journey through the new book, More Lessons From the Nonprofit Boardroom, by Dan Busby and John Pearson. Each Wednesday, we're featuring a guest writer’s favorite snippet from the week's topic. Hal Habecker is our guest blogger this week for the third of four lessons in "Part 3: Nominees for the Board Member Hall of Fame.”



LESSON 11 OF 40 - Thrive With Four Kingdom Values
Set a high standard for the board and the board members.

THE BIG IDEA FROM THE BOOK: In Lesson 11, the authors note that because of a variety of board dysfunctions, board service may not always be fulfilling and less than satisfying. Though no board is perfect, the authors suggest that much dissatisfaction would disappear if more attention was given to the deployment of the Holy Spirit. If sought, the Holy Spirit would give clearer discernment, a more accurate assessment of spiritual gifts, a better understanding of what commitment would mean, which would lead to a greater enjoyment.

MY FAVORITE INSIGHTS from Lesson 11, pages 64-69:
• David McKenna: “Discernment is a gift of the Holy Spirit that comes with spiritual maturity. It may be the gift that defines Christ-centered leadership.” The emphasis on discernment in both the selection and function of board members cannot be overemphasized. 
• “The best boards inspire members to leverage their God-given gifts. The best boards don’t just fill board slots by inserting square pegs in round holes.”
• Prayer: “Lord, like Eric Liddell’s testimony, ‘I believe that God made me for a purpose, but He also made me fast,’ show each of our board members their God-given purpose. Amen.”

MY COLOR COMMENTARY:
When Finishing Well Ministries (FWM) was launched, the board that He brought together was a close-knit group of personal friends who cared deeply about me and the mission of FWM. Those friendships forged the framework for FWM, and FWM launched well. Since we have traveled together in these early years, it is becoming increasingly clear that while strong friendships form a great launching pad, what is continually necessary is a greater discernment for an increasing complexity of issues regarding our present and future ministry. Holy Spirit discernment is more critically important now than when we began. 

As I reflect on over 33 years of leading boards and 29 years of serving on boards, I find the encouragement of Busby and Pearson in this chapter as refreshing as ever for all leaders and all boards. Their encouragement reminds me of the truth of Romans 8:14, “For all who are led by the Spirit of God, these are the sons of Gods.” May I paraphrase it this way? “For all boards, in both their makeup and their work, who are led by the Spirit of God, these are the boards and ministries that are in fact doing the work of God.” 

THIS WEEK’S QUOTES & COMMENTARY BY HAL HABECKER:


HAL HABECKER is the Founder and President of Finishing Well Ministries. Hal has worked in and led various ministries for the past 44 years, including First Baptist Church (Dallas), The Christian Medical and Dental Associations, Dallas Bible Church, and now Finishing Well Ministries.


TO DO TODAY: 
• Discern: What Kingdom values are foundational to your board’s theology and philosophy of governance?
• Raise the bar! Create the expectation that all board members will experience God’s pleasure as they serve.
• Visit the ECFA Knowledge Center and read and share the short chapter, Lesson 11, “Thrive With Four Kingdom Values.”



NEXT WEDNESDAY: On 
March 25, 2020, watch for the commentary on Lesson 12, “Keeping the Boardroom Afloat. Are too many staff causing the boardroom to capsize?”



BULK ORDERS: Click here. For more resources and to download the book's Table of Contents, visit the book's webpage.

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